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Post by FastNFancy on Jun 10, 2008 20:24:27 GMT -5
in case you did not know...this is not your board and you are not authorized to tell anyone what to post over here. I appreciate your concern but you can take that verbige over to your Review Fan Club and dictate over there. Are you a spokesperson for the family? Since when are people given permission to give condolences...by what authority do you speak. Out of respect for the Crosby family...I will not address this any further because now is not the time for such foolishness. People are grieving and here you are trying to stick your nose in issues that don't concern you. I would have deleted your post but it was just to foolish not to leave it there and show just what type of person you are. I suggest you go somewhere else where your usefulness is appreciated.
Peace and Blessings
The Administrator
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Post by FastNFancy on Jun 11, 2008 6:13:35 GMT -5
Quit lying...you are not a friend of the family...you don't know them. They have tolerated you because you have proclaimed yourself as fan club president. They are just being courteous since you spend every waking hour being club president. You should attend to your boards and I will attend to mine. Because you are a self proclaimed FAN club president...it does not give you the right to go all over the internet dictating what should and should not be said. We don't need you over here.
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Post by FastNFancy on Jun 11, 2008 14:19:31 GMT -5
Here are the posts you call yourself deleting:For your informations I am a friend of the family and I was told by Ben's daughter Kye not to post anything until she did her email blasts first.
Ben's wife Mabel was not ready to go public with her loss yet so I told Kye that I would
wait until after she does her email blasts and she told me that she would send me all the information I needed to properly inform the fans about Ben's death and funeral.
Because I'm the fan club coordinator I stay in contact with everyone at HI-C Management and I also keep in contact with Dennis and his wife Brenda.
I was being formal when I made my post and I wasn't trying to tell anyone what to do.
I simply stated that no posts from me was going to be made in respect for the Crosby family.
I know the majority of the people that come on here that may or may not be in the fan club on MySpace so I do my best to keep everybody informed on what's going on.
We are all Temps Review fans and we are all greiving right now.
First of all, I don't need to prove anything to you.
So I don't give a damn what you say on here.
"Ms. Administrator"!
I don't have the time to sit here and argue with a dumb azz, rude azz, immature azz
Witch like you.
Like I said, you can take "your old, tired, boaring and outdated, no class board that 'YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO RUN"
and shove it up your big fat ugly azz!
Everybody on this board knows Your A Damn Witch
that's why you don't have anybody on here.
The reason why its dead is because "The Wicked Witch" Administrator doesn't know how to run a f-ing message board. ...and all this coming from a self proclaimed FAN club president. It is quite evident the state of your mind...the level of your intelligence... integrity...and your maturity leaves much to be desired. You need to do The Review a favor and disassociate yourself from them because you are a piss poor representative of a CLASSY organization who has maintained respect, dignity and class for more years than you have been alive. Spare us all and crawl back under the rock you slithered from under. If your initial intentions were above board...I would not have taken offense to your original comment. If you had anything concrete to offer...you could have said all you had to say on one of those tacky junky monstrosities on myspace.
I refuse to get into name calling...after all your pictures speak for themselves. Do us all a favor and get another hobby...you are not very good at this one. 
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Post by Former Member on Jun 11, 2008 15:49:43 GMT -5
I purposly deleted all my comments because I am no longer a member of this board and I appologize for my harsh comments.
The Truth of the matter is that you didn't have to come at me and verbally attack me the way that you did.
I've been a Temps fan for over 40 years and I have never experienced such rudeness in my life.
I joined this board to network with other fans and to share my information concerning the group so that we all could enjoy our favorite fellas.
Out of respect for the Crosby family, the group, and the other fans who do come on here, I will not respond to any more of your comments.
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Post by FastNFancy on Jun 11, 2008 16:27:48 GMT -5
That's the best post you've made since y started coming on this board!
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Post by SD on Jun 11, 2008 17:23:11 GMT -5
I really hope the Review does not have Statone/Former Member representing them. This is the last thing this group needs is to have a fan act in this manner where they feel they can speak any which way to other fans when they can't get their way or act like the group is exclusive to 'certain fans'. This is the same crap that alienates other music lovers who enjoy the music without all this pulling rank by people who claim to be close to a celebrity. If this is the case, then the exclusive 'fans' can continue their support without the rest of us. All some of us wanted to do is give condolescences to a man's family. That's it. I don't see what the big deal was about in the first place.
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Post by FastNFancy on Jun 11, 2008 18:56:26 GMT -5
I agree SD. I regret that this incident happened. The Crosby Family and The Review have suffered a great loss...we were merely expressing our sympathy...not trying to plan something for the family. I have suffered the loss of family members and the last thing in the world I would want to be bothered with is someone I don't even know calling and asking questions. This is a painful time for this family and they should be able to absorb the situation without interference from outsiders. I apologize for my actions but I felt it necessary at the time. I just felt it was wrong for her to try and dictate when we should express our sympathy...like we need permission from her.  |
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Post by Charles on Jun 11, 2008 19:38:46 GMT -5
I know StaTone and she's a good friend of mine.
She's a good lady with a good heart.
She works hard and does a good job of promoting
Dennis and The Review.
I don't think she was trying to tell anybody what to do she just said she wasn't gonna post her condolences until after she heard from the family it was ok to do so.
That was her way of showing her respect for that family.
I don't see anything wrong with that.
We are all grieving the loss of a great manager and friend.
That's who we should be talking about.
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Post by Duchess on Jun 11, 2008 22:12:34 GMT -5
This Statone b*tch is just a nobody who wants to feel important. "Fan Club President" is just another word for no life having loser! Fan club president? What are you...11, 12 years old HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! ...And how the hell is Statone gonna call somebody's board outdated when her stupid a$$ still has picks of Ali as a member of the Review on her corny-a$$, jumbled-up, ugly myspace page of Dennis! ...Gonna try to tell somebody when to express condolences, HA! Gonna use a man's death to try and sound all important. I'm so glad your deleted posts got "outed"....it is soooo good for you  . I'm not coming here in defense of FastNFancy ('cause I know she can handle her own), I'm here 'cause I hate people who think they are all important trying to boss others around. Statone, you are probably just an annoyance to Dennis and nem - Dwell on it! So take your stupid-a$$ title of "Fan Club President" and shove it up YOUR a$$, and kick rocks b*tch! Love Duchess  |
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Post by FastNFancy on Jun 11, 2008 23:10:15 GMT -5
I know StaTone and she's a good friend of mine. She's a good lady with a good heart. She works hard and does a good job of promoting Dennis and The Review. I don't think she was trying to tell anybody what to do she just said she wasn't gonna post her condolences until after she heard from the family it was ok to do so. That was her way of showing her respect for that family. I don't see anything wrong with that. We are all grieving the loss of a great manager and friend. That's who we should be talking about. I thought you were gone...now you are a promoter AND over here posting as Charles.  Girl bye. |
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Post by StaTone on Jun 11, 2008 23:57:52 GMT -5
Thanks Charles for your kind words.
Wow!
They'de rather talk about me than show their respect
for Ben.
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Post by StaTone on Jun 12, 2008 3:22:34 GMT -5
Oh and by the way I'm not Charles.
And I don't run any chat boards at the moment.
And I don't manage Dennis's site either.
You know, I said I wasn't gonna post here any more but I couldn't help it.
Charles is my friend who works with Rasta Clint and Genesee audio(Randy) who do the monitor(stage)
mixing for Dennis and The Temps Review and all of them knew Ben very well.
Ben touched the lives of many people including me.
I've known Ben, Mabel and Kye for a little over a year now.
Before Ben passed away we were working together and
I was waiting on his permission and approval to go forward with new T-Shirts, gift cards and benefits for both the group and the fan club members.
We have a fan club staff that works behind the scenes together to help in the support and the promotion of the group.
In the time that I knew Ben he was always encouraging me and making me laugh and I will miss him more than you will ever know.
I do Creative Advertising, Promotions and Community Organizing
for a living.
I do the fan club thing just for fun and for my love of the group.
All the while that I was a member of this board, I've tried to keep everybody informed with whats going on so that we could all support the group and get something good and rewarding out of it at the same time.
I wasn't trying to be "The President" or tell everybody what to do
and I'm sorry if I misstated anything or led you to believe that.
I just wanted to wait on permission from Kye and to allow her to give me the proper information to take to the fans who knew Ben, but didn't know about his passing and I wanted to do it in a proper way and I was simply saying that "we" meaning my husband and I wasn't going to post anything until we heard from her.
That's all I was trying to say and all I wanted to do and I got attacked for it.
You didn't bother to ask me what I meant.
You just went into attack mode on me.
I don't want to argue with you.
We are all grieving the loss of Ben right now and we
should be giving this week of rememberance to him.
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Post by temp4life on Jun 12, 2008 11:08:40 GMT -5
hello everyone out here first off this is uncalled for you all should keep your drama to yourself and not let the world know about your bussines no cares who knows who let the family and friends and loved ones grieve this here is a embarrasement to the temptations review enough is enough i am not here to judge anyone but this crazy i haven't been on here in two yerars so i just want to say hello to everyone and check out my myspacepage the addy is www.myspace.com/temp4life1oky take care alec ben we will miss you   |
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Post by SMDH on Jun 12, 2008 23:49:01 GMT -5
another one coming over here telling somebody what to do while promoting their own agenda. damn shame.
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Post by mona2400 on Jun 14, 2008 6:47:34 GMT -5
I spoke with Tony Turner who had just returned from Costa Rica and he was shocked upon hearing what had happened. It took him by surprise - as it did all of us - Tony sends his synpathy to Bens Family and to Dennis and The Tempts review as well.
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. I'm not coming here in defense of FastNFancy ('cause I know she can handle her own), I'm here 'cause I hate people who think they are all important trying to boss others around. Statone, you are probably just an annoyance to Dennis and nem - Dwell on it! So take your stupid-a$$ title of "Fan Club President" and shove it up YOUR a$$, and kick rocks b*tch!
